"the clitoris is just the tip of the iceberg"
This is a common metaphor about the clitoris, it's true but it ends too soon! The clitoris is an iceberg that sits within an entire ocean, with a full ecosystem of pleasurable muscles, nerves and organs dwelling below it. The vulva skin is the sensitive surface of the ocean through which we can see and experience this pleasurable network.
If you are unsure what feels good to you yet, feel numb or have pelvic pain, or feel like you are sexually hibernating or healing, you are not alone and you can take or leave what you want from this website, or just enjoy the anatomy lesson. There is no pressure to ‘do’ or ‘be’ anything described, remember you have autonomy over your body.